Sounds cheesy, but a friend of my family’s always used to play this on his accordian. I haven’t thought about this in a while.
Is life all destiny or choice? A lot of both. Saying “yes” and trying new things will open a lot of doors that otherwise may never open. Going up to someone and saying “hello” will earn you new connections.
Nobody asks to be born, nobody asks for their family. Things like these are things we can’t change. Yet other things we can.